Souls always connect, at the perfect time and place to fulfil an emotional, physical, mental or spiritual task or karmic bond. We are never connected to anyone by chance, there is always a higher lesson and a deeper message from the Universe. You atttact what your energy vibrates.
Check yourself. Sometimes you’re the toxic person. Understand that you make mistakes. You hurt people. Apologize. That’s growth, understanding that there are things you need to work on. That’s enlightenment, striving for continuous improvement, instead of faking perfection.